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Reconnecting With Yourself: The Most Important Relationship You Have

Sharron Keogh   April 16, 2023   min read

As a coach and holistic practitioner, I've seen many clients struggling with their relationships. But the most important relationship that is often overlooked, is the one with ourselves. It's the foundation of all our other relationships, yet we tend to neglect it in favour of external relationships.

When we neglect our relationship with ourselves, it can turn toxic. We become our worst critic, judge ourselves harshly, and sabotage our own happiness. But it doesn't have to be this way. By recognising the signs of a toxic relationship with yourself and taking practical steps to reconnect, you can cultivate a healthier, happier life.


Signs You Are In A Toxic Relationship With Yourself

It's easy to overlook the signs of a toxic relationship with yourself. After all, you are with yourself 24/7. But here are some common indicators that you might be in a toxic relationship with yourself:

  1. Negative self-talk: Do you criticise yourself harshly? Do you use language towards yourself that you wouldn't use towards someone you love?
  2. Self-sabotage: Do you have a pattern of sabotaging your own success, happiness or relationships?
  3. Perfectionism: Do you hold yourself to impossibly high standards? Do you beat yourself up for every mistake?
  4. Comparison: Do you constantly compare yourself to others, feeling inadequate or inferior?
  5. Lack of self-care: Do you neglect your physical, emotional, or spiritual needs? Do you prioritize others' needs over your own?
  6. Loss of intuitive abilities: Have you lost touch with your inner voice? Do you struggle to trust your instincts and make decisions?
  7. Lack of fun: Do you struggle to enjoy activities that used to bring you pleasure? Do you feel like you're going through the motions without any real joy?

If any of these sound familiar, it's a sign that your relationship with yourself needs some attention and it may be the time to start reconnecting with yourself.


Ways You Can Reconnect To Yourself

Reconnecting with yourself isn't a one-off event. It's an ongoing process that requires dedication, patience, and self-compassion. Here are some practical tips to help you get started:

  1. Mindfulness: Mindfulness is the practice of paying attention to the present moment without judgment. It can help you become more aware of your thoughts, feelings, and physical sensations.
  2. Self-compassion: Self-compassion is the practice of treating yourself with kindness, care, and understanding. It can help you develop a more positive and supportive relationship with yourself.
  3. Self-care: Self-care is the practice of taking care of your physical, emotional, and spiritual needs. It can include things like exercise, healthy eating, sleep, relaxation, and connecting with others.
  4. Gratitude: Gratitude is the practice of noticing and appreciating the good things in your life. It can help you cultivate a more positive outlook and reduce negative self-talk.
  5. Creativity: Creativity is the practice of expressing yourself in a way that feels meaningful and fulfilling. It can help you tap into your inner resources and reconnect with your authentic self.
  6. Intuition: Reconnecting with your intuition can help you regain trust in yourself and make decisions that align with your values and goals. Try journaling, meditating, or spending time in nature to tap into your inner wisdom.
  7. Fun: Make time for activities that bring you joy and pleasure. Whether it's trying a new hobby, spending time with friends, or simply taking a break from work, find ways to infuse your life with fun and playfulness.  Remember, what previously brought you joy may no longer be the same thing.


Closing

The relationship with yourself is the foundation of all your other relationships. By recognising the signs of a toxic relationship with yourself and taking practical steps to reconnect, you can cultivate a healthier, happier life. Remember, reconnecting with yourself is an ongoing process. Be patient, be kind to yourself, and keep moving forward.

In conclusion, take some time to reflect on your relationship with yourself. Are there any areas that need attention? Are you neglecting your own needs in favor of others? Use the tips in this article to help you reconnect and create a more positive relationship with yourself. You deserve it!

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Sharron Keogh
About The Author

My name is Sharron, and I'm on a mission to share the tools and strategies I have learnt over the past 9 years that make the real differences keeping your word and transforming your health.

I've worked with thousands of women just like you, and shown them the way to honour themselves and live a life they love. And believe me - YOU are worthy of this too!

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